Elevating Character – By Ian Love-Jones

I did not seek initiation because of famous Odd Fellows, though there are many. The marketing doesn’t hurt though! It can be exciting to know in the back of your mind, that your name appears in the same registers with titans in history … In our enthusiasm for shared kinship with strong willed leaders, and high achievers, we should also be discerning about whom we celebrate. I caution discernment not because I ever expect humans to be perfect and uncomplicated – I expect quite the opposite, in fact. I am only observing that notoriety is not always the mark of a life spent promoting or demonstrating good character, or even a life that demonstrated redemptive change.

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Light A Candle – by Ian Love-Jones

Please know that lighting a candle rather than simply cursing the darkness isn’t about ignoring challenges, looking down on healthy venting, or creating some self initiated cure-all. Lighting a candle rather than cursing the darkness is a reminder of how important it is to first find some hope, when throwing up our hands would feel far easier. It is an encouragement to do just what we can when the world seems bleak, and we are tired. Lighting a candle and not just cursing the darkness is a lesson: that even small lights when openly shone, can travel far, signal needs or solutions, summon non-judgmental helpers, and inspire others to light their own candles so that we can press back the gloom as a collective.

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Who Will You Empower? – By Ian Love-Jones

Your life doesn’t have to be perfect to give back. So often, people need your humanity more than your holiness, and your seasoning more than your success. Give it thought and you’ll start to discover the many ways that you could give back to someone else. You may have precious knowledge from hard earned lessons, you might have a moment to listen and encourage, or particularly as Odd Fellows, you could open the door to a world of supportive community.

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A Secret Garden -By Ian Love-Jones

The fraternal lodge is a sealed space where inner growth-work can happen in seclusion. It’s a secret garden of sorts, a place where we can cultivate the delicate fruits of change that the wider world may see later on.

The hidden journey of growth is a concept known to many fraternal folks. Odd Fellows shun worldly praise in favor of “treasures in heaven” (spiritual rewards). Hermetic scholars watch over the science of gradual transformation, knowing that a controlled setting is crucial to cause and effect.

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Sanctuary -By Torbjörn Andersson

One of the greatest gifts I have found in Odd Fellow is the idea of sanctuary. The word sanctuary often brings to mind a physical location. A church, a temple, or perhaps a quiet room removed from the noise of everyday life. Yet the longer I have been involved in Odd Fellow, the more I have understood that sanctuary is far more than a place. It is an experience. It is a feeling. It is a state of mind. There are certain places in life where we feel at ease almost immediately. Places where the pace slows, where conversation carries meaning, and where we can set aside the demands of the outside world for a while.

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The Lodge as a Microcosm of a Positive Society -By Torbjörn Andersson

The lodge as a microcosm of a positive society.

Within the quiet atmosphere of the lodgeroom, something remarkable takes shape.
Through ceremony, symbols, and fellowship, the lodge becomes far more than a meeting place. It becomes a reflection of society as it could be at its very best: a microcosm of a positive society built upon tradition, dignity, respect, truth, and brotherhood.

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Tiers of Transformation -By Ian Love-Jones

What stands out to you about degrees in fraternalism? Is it the regalia? Is it downloading large amounts of new information into your brain? Maybe it’s memory work and recitation, or theatre? When I think of degrees in fraternalism and in life overall, I can’t help but think about transformation. I think about the degrees of difference between a block of ice, and a cloud of vapor in the sky – one solid and unyielding, one soaring and expanding. 

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The Way and the Why -by Ian Love-Jones

Lately my work has opened my eyes to how easily practices are either misunderstood, missing from formal writings, or disconnected from practical use as time passes. In my frequent reviews of written texts and oral-accounts, I find myself asking meaningful questions. Questions like: how did we get here, is this official, should we still be here, and sometimes, what might it take to get to something that serves us better?

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